The thing is, that when you're young, you always think you'll meet all sorts of wonderful people, that drifting apart and losing friends is natural. You don't worry, at first, about the friends you leave behind. But as you get older, it gets harder to build friendships. Too many defenses, too little opportunity. You get busy. And by the time you realize that you've lost the dearest best friend you've ever had, years have gone by and you're mature enough to be embarrassed by your attitude and, frankly, by your arrogance. Kate Jacobs
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As we grow older, we realize that life does not come with a manual. There are no step-by-step instructions on how to make friends. You can't just read a book and suddenly become a good friend, because the relationship is a two-way street. As we grow older, our defenses might get in the way of making new relationships with those around us, however, it is important to accept that this is a normal part of growing up. Even though it may be painful now, it will only help you in the long run.

Source: The Friday Night Knitting Club

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